Every good and perfect gift…

April 9th, 2009 · 19 Comments · Marriage: So sappy together...

Love in the Shadow

Today is Charlie’s and my 15th Wedding Anniversary.

It’s also the day at the end of the Civil War when Robert E. Lee surrendered at Appomatox. If we’d been Southerners 15 years ago, I bet we would’ve picked a different date. Or worn black.

This year our anniversary falls on Passover too. Since Passover is ultimately about God’s mighty power to rescue those he loves, I think it’s fitting. God certainly rescued me from my family history and my own bad choices by providing Charlie.

The verse on our wedding program? “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows” (James 1:17).

This morning we exchanged cards. Here’s what Charlie wrote (and yes, I did get his permission to post it)

Stephanie,

It’s hard to believe it’s been 15 years! Remember back in our first married Sunday school class, when we used to look at couples married that long and we thought it was SUCH a long time?

It seems so very short now. The blink of an eye. The only things that indicate the passage of time are the ages of our kids and the sense of how far we’ve come.

What’s wonderful is that the best is still yet to come. And God willing, we still have lots of time to fulfill our dreams together.

So Happy Anniversary! Let’s celebrate the day we committed ourselves to one body, one family, one life. (And one brain!)

I love you now and always,

Charlie

I know! Awwwwwww… Right?

Yes, he is truly that wonderful.

And his card totally outshone the one I gave him.

Although the booger joke in mine was funny – I don’t care who you are.

Happy Anniversary, My Beloved!

(A blog post seen by tens of people is better than an old booger card, anyway. …Right?)

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19 responses so far ↓

  • 1 Helen // Apr 9, 2009 at 4:36 pm

    Happy Anniversary.

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  • 2 Screwed Up Texan // Apr 9, 2009 at 4:37 pm

    Happy Anniversary! I wish my husband could write like that…he’s lucky if he can poke type faster than a snail. May your next 15 years be even better than the first!

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  • 3 Candy // Apr 9, 2009 at 6:34 pm

    Happy Anniversary! Wow, what a sweetie and he COOKS!! 20 more years and you’ve caught up to us. By then, we’ll be wrapped in a Snuggie in a home somewhere.

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  • 4 Eva // Apr 9, 2009 at 7:10 pm

    Stephanie, that is SUCH a sweet letter!
    And I love the verse on your wedding program. Very fitting…

    Happy Anniversary & many, MANY more!
    Eva

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  • 5 Wendy // Apr 9, 2009 at 8:50 pm

    Oh, it’s just so mushy and gooshy! Happy Anniversary to you both!

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  • 6 Beth // Apr 9, 2009 at 8:56 pm

    Happy Anniversary!
    That Charlie’s pretty sweet. Any fun plans to celebrate?

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  • 7 Annie K // Apr 9, 2009 at 10:17 pm

    Steph, that’s awesome! Happy anniversary and truth be told, your post made me cry (yes, I do that. I may seem like a tough girl, but I’m just a big mooshy soft mess inside).

    Congratulations!!

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  • 8 sherri // Apr 10, 2009 at 8:22 am

    Happy Anniversary- God bless you with many more happy years for you both to enjoy.

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  • 9 @ngie // Apr 10, 2009 at 9:23 am

    Congratulations! Wow, that is a great card. Happy 15th Anniversary to the both of ya’!

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  • 10 Evenshine // Apr 10, 2009 at 10:17 am

    Congrats- and did you take that pic, btw? Really good. Hope you have some time to get away for a few hours with Yo Man!

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  • 11 faemom // Apr 10, 2009 at 4:28 pm

    Super, wonderful post. I hope you guys hjad a great day! Did you take that picture?

  • 12 Billy Coffey // Apr 10, 2009 at 8:44 pm

    Happy anniversary to the both of you. That sounds like a good guy.

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  • 13 katdish // Apr 10, 2009 at 11:33 pm

    Aw, shucks Steph! I missed your anniversary? Happy Belated Anniversary! Ron is way better than writing nice things on card than I am. He’s quiet but thoughtful. Sort of like me only completely different. Also, you really should check your gmail.

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  • 14 katdish // Apr 10, 2009 at 11:34 pm

    P.S. – “writing nice things on card” is caveman talk.

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  • 15 BeckeyZ // Apr 11, 2009 at 3:52 am

    How sweet – I can’t get my hubby to give me a card. He rolled his eyes at me last week when I asked him if he would still love me when I was 64 (the song was on the radio).

    Happy Anniversary y’all!!! (even if I am a day late)

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  • 16 sherri // Apr 11, 2009 at 8:20 am

    I think Rahael Ray’s first anniversary is coming up. I think we ought to get her something special!

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  • 17 Joyce // Apr 12, 2009 at 12:24 pm

    Happy Anniversary a little late…I’ve been away. Hope it was a great day!

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  • 18 Carol @SheLives // Apr 13, 2009 at 7:24 am

    I dunno…Booger cards are pretty hard to beat.

    Happy belated, you two lovebirds!

  • 19 elizabeth channel // Apr 14, 2009 at 1:22 pm

    Happy 15th! That was the sweetest card he wrote! (Our 15th is in May.)

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