I’ve had a weird day. It started out so good, too. Kids off to the first day of school, me home to the first day of the rest of my life. Lots of contented sighing punctuated by silence. I had a fabulous time reading blogs, checking email, chatting with the hubby, and just chilling out.

The turning point came when I picked up the kids. Abby’s teacher brought her out first and told me that Abby had NOT had a very good day. Based on her description, it was a pretty BAD day. Wow. Quite a buzz-killer.

From what I gather, Abby was disobedient, argumentative, uncooperative, and disruptive. She spent a good portion of the day out in the hall, and some of that time was spent yelling and kicking the door. Wow. Not what I expected at all.

I’ve been thinking about it all afternoon, and I’m kinda bummed. I know she’s been more contrary in the past month, but I didn’t really think she’d drive her teachers crazy like this. I’m not feeling very joyful or faith-filled right now.

Dear Father,

Please help. I’m reminded by this that I can’t parent well on my own. I don’t really know the best course of action. Since I’m still unlearning some of the stuff I absorbed growing up, I don’t trust my instincts as a mom. So I really need your guidance and wisdom. Please help me and Charlie see the steps you want us to take in dealing with Abby. Show us how to raise a young woman of character and commitment to you. Thank you.

Of course I’ll also welcome any comments or encouragement from you human readers.